Effing WAIT to get to university. I feel as if I'll be free when I get there. In the mean time I have a new mantra "I can do what ever I want !" It's working out great. I don't get stressed when people drive up my bum cos they think I'm going too slow, because I can do what I want. I don't have to unload the dishwasher if I don't want to because frankly I can do what I want. If I want to go to college I will, if I want to stay at home and do my work I will !! It's amazing, I don't feel like I have to please anyone any more. Obviously though my incessant niceness works well with this mantra because there's still plenty of things I want to do. Like make my boyfriend a cup of tea every morning he stays over. And I still want to cook all the meals at home, which is good because I'm not very good at being hungry. So all in all I'd recommend to everyone to tell them selves every day "I can do what I want"... although I'd advise minimal caution and reason. Key word being minimal.